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Old Jul 06, 2008, 10:34 AM
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I love my BF with all my heart, but there is one thing that just irritates the heck outta me and it's that he looks over my shoulder at what I am looking at on the computer.

See, we sit next to each other on the loveseat, he on his laptop and me on mine. We use those TV trays for our laptops because otherwise we get no connection to the internet. Why do I tell you this? Because I can't turn my computer away from him, I have nowhere else to go in our little apartment.

It is so darned irritating and I don't know why. We share everything together, I am not looking at anything wrong, nor am I worried about what he might see. I just feel like my privacy is invaded or something. I feel the same way at work and if I am reading a newspaper and someone looks over my shoulder, so it's not just him. I just don't want to deal with it at home.

Has anyone else ever had this problem? How do I approach him about it (he is very sensitive)? Am *I* just being too sensitive? Am *I* the one with the problem and need to work on it?

Thanks,
BJ
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