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I'm not exactly clear on this-- did he actually say that you should cut your hair? You wrote that he said that you would look better with a short haircut. Did he actually say "better?" Or did he say you would look "nice" with short hair? I ask because while I don't think there is anything wrong with a T commenting on your appearance in certain instances, I do think it is inappropriate for him to say that you would look "better" than you do now if you altered your appearance in some way.

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I'm trying with all of my mind to think of exactly what he said. I guess it caught me off guard. He asked me to pull my hair back again.. and I did.. and he said something about how much different I look. He asked me to do it again.. and I got funny about it... definitely felt uncomfortabe.. but I did it. He said something about either cutting it or keeping it up or back. All I could think was "what's wrong with me NOW"... Maybe my hair is age inappropriate and he was trying to tell me that? (but he didn't say that) (I'm 45)

It doesn't feel good being in the "cheap seats" ... sitting across from a professional knowing how I screwed up my own life as it is. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more frustration.

PS.. thanks for noticing the Bowie. I adore Bowie.