Thanks everyone. Im not really sure what i think now. I know I hate it also when people say stuff like that.I would like them to live with this illness. She told me remember its not happening now. However to me at the time it sure felt like it was. If I could get my thinking mind and my emotional mind on the same page well it would be easier to hear that. I decided next fourth of july if I am not better my therapists are spending the night at my house.