I'm with you in that this is also something I struggle with. To be honest, the reason I volunteered to moderate this forum was because I know that I need it, although I resist it with all I've got way too often. For today, I made myself read the article that DocJohn posted for us in his introduction. I'm going to need to reread it a few times and try to get it to sink in. Maybe we can discuss what we learn here. I'll post some "Positive Psychology" links too that I've been collecting and not processing as well as I should. I don't have the answers, but I'm searching too. Sometimes it's easier to see the good in others than in ourselves. Maybe we can help each other by helping to point out the positive qualities we see in each other.