I have a lot of anxiety when people leave. Even when they leave for a day or to and no one understands that but I do and I know now that it is old stuff being triggered. The more I try to reach out and work through the abandoment ******** the better i get. My daughter just moved out and i was worried but she is the happiest I've ever seen her. She has found people that she can talk to and support her in ways that I couldn't because i didn't know how. There is a plan for her and she is being looked after. I don't know is you pray but I ask God to watch over her and give her what she needs. She is doing what she is supposed to do find her own life find what she believes ect.