Hey Kiya... In respect to your other post about boundaries, it sounds like your Mom isn't respecting your boundaries-- you mentioned that you have trouble setting boundaries... have you set them with your Mom? You did mention that you told her you don't want her in your room, but she doesn't seem to respect that. It also seems as though your Mom doesn't put many boundaries up... This is similar to my Mom because she is extremely dependent. There are many times in which I have become more of the parent figure. My Mom's boundaries are always down, and privacy was not something that was recognized in my house. When I was 15, my Mom became addicted to the internet. The computer was mine. It was in my room. She would spent countless hours in my room to be on the computer-- even when my friends were over. I would have to go to bed every night listening her to clicking and clacking on the keyboard, sitting three feet away from me in my room. Talk about an invasion of boundaries.