thank u for the reply.ive tryed talking to him in the past and all he tells me is that he wont even try to wear mens underwear because supposedly every type is uncomfortable to him.i got him to stop wearing bras==thank god. that was really wierd for me.hes always looking up womans panties and crossdressers underwear on ebay- it kinda grosses me out.his favorite color is pink and he actually wears pink shorts around the house.his family doesnt know he does these things,every time i do try to talk to him he gets real defensive about the subject. i love him and he is very sexy when i overlook his female side. he actually looks alot like stone cold steve austin.