I'm so sorry Inkblot for assuming you were living with them, forgive me....

I do know one thing, this will all be seen as an 'act of love' on your part one day - as I'm sure it is.

Give it time. They will come around.
It's happened to my dear friend, and it will happen for you too.

Do something nice for yourself!

And again, I am so so sorry.

Peace and Love,
Night