Hi (((((((((((lilacnaomi)))))))))))))
Does your therapist have any experience in trauma? If so, perhaps you guys can just work on that type of stuff. As you work through the trauma, that might help you integrate. Have you talked with him about the possibility of finding someone who has experience with dissociation?

My first therapist recognized that I had DID well before I did (but did not tell me- I found out that he knew a couple years later from my current therapist) and somehow got me to another therapist that specializes in DID. It was hard in the beginning, but one of the best things that have happened as my T understands what is going on for me and has really been able to help me a lot.

Good luck and please keep us posted. And welcome to Psych Central!