I get sad/ depressed when she reminds me of my abuse as a child. I dont like to think about it and I avoid the topic. So whenever she says it. its a big downer.
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Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.
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