(((muffy))))

your sister sounds like she is doing better now... it was hard for you to assert yourself and set the boundaries you did, but you each are onto a path of healing now... you had the strength and insight to help your sister best by showing her the ropes to independence... now she is healthier for herself and your own health is on its way to improvement...

co dependent people are not bad people, sometimes they are people who didnt have an opportunity to learn healthier ways of life... its taken me several years to recognize several bad habits within myself that growing up i thought of as harmless fun.... i can now see the heavy ball i was under... my searching for satisfaction and prosperity caused me to do some harmful things to myself and others.. i am sorry for my ways and i want to repair the damages i caused.......

i think the best place for me to start is by having considerate feelings for others.. ive hurt them and i didnt intend to... i will search further into my intentions in the future...

isnt there a doctors motto? 'First do no harm." i'm sure i could research it further, but i know thats what ive heard... good advice imo...
thank you for sharing this