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What do you need right now?

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Dear god, yes, I HATE this one!

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I love that question! It makes me feel deeply cared for that he wants to know and fill my needs (if he can). It also makes me slow down, be silent, "listen" to my insides, and "hear" what it is I need to heal. I wish he would ask me this more. It is certainly not always easy to answer, but it warms my insides to hear him say it. Sometimes it can turn around a conversation or a therapy session when he asks this.

It's interesting that some people are reporting things they hate to hear, that irritate them, etc. For me those things are really different from something that depresses me to hear, but I realize others may be different.