Would you like me to say No, No Healer2011 you should not eat for pleasure and fulfillment. Shame on you.
Ok Now that we got that out of the way. I do the exact same thing well at least sort of. I stay as far away from relationships as I can but that is my issue not yours. But we are both eating (even though we know we shouldn't) to get some feeling of comfort from our lives.
I'm just a frog of little brain but you sound like you at least are beginning to think in the right direction. It is not going to be all roses and sunshine but I get the feeling you have the strength to pull yourself though.
You can do it. Yes you can.