One session T and I discussed my fear that if I get well I will lose her. She really seemed to understand and basically she told me that she's not going to get rid of me until I'm ready and she won't abandon me. We really discussed this in depth and that was so important to me.

Another positive thing my T does that forever shocks me and makes me feel like I matter is when she goes over everything we've discussed and remembers what I've said!!!! Sometimes she remembers things I've said many sessions ago. I never thought I was important enough to listen to. When she remembers I feel so special.