Thread: Confidence?????
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Old Jul 08, 2008, 07:15 AM
healer2011 healer2011 is offline
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Hey there, I know what it's like to have something about you that makes you feel less pretty than you would like to! I think its great that you are getting braces and trying to do something about an issue that bothers you.

Here's the only thing. I think it is possible that when you are done and the braces are on, you may end up finding something else that you can change so you don't feel "unpretty". I think that there is nothing wrong with changing your looks (losing or gaining weight, getting braces, etc...) so long as you know that it won't make the problems you had before go away. If you are feeling somewhat unsure of yourself now and are feeling somewhat insecure about your husband's love now these things may not go away. It might worth it to talk through some of your insecurities about your relationship with your husband with a counselor or good friends.