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Old Jul 08, 2008, 10:59 AM
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> I'm triggered by hypocrisy... triggers strong feelings of ... fear. (All stems from my past)

Of course.

Think more on just exactly what it is that causes fear? What behavior in the other person? Try to be precise about it.

Once the fear is lessened, think about what the behavior says about the other person...

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