I do know his family life was not very healthy from what he has told me. He said he has his views and he isn't budging on them. It seems like he won't be part of the child's life. I guess it's for the best but at the same time it's sad because I really wanted this child to have her father. He said he isn't going to change his belief and that I'm really horrible to try to change him.

He would do this to me alot. He tries to turn situations around and emotionally try to hurt me. He knows how to push my buttons. I do really care for him because we had so much in common but our views really differ. I wanted to stand by him and I wanted him to get better. I am not perfect either I have so much to work on but I thought he'd want to work on himself just as much as me.

Thank you!