Thank you so much! I know I couldn't of done this without posting here. I really needed this support which is very nice.

Is there a place I can alert to tell them there is signs that he is abusive and why it is not really healthy for him to see the child?

I should of always seen the warning signs from the beginning. There has always been issues. Mainly with him trusting me. When I found out I was pregnant he told me I had to get 3 DNA tests done since lots of hospitals claim the father is whomever the woman says it is whether he is or not.

I just hoped through time he would see I've stood by him through most things and he would see things... But I guess not. I put in so much effort into making this work. I know I finally have to step back and look out for the child and myself now.