ok...gonna try this...thinking....

1) I try very hard to be compassionate.
2) I'm very devoted to my family.
3) I've kept off the weight I lost.
4) I'm respectful of other's feelings.
5) My legs aren't bad for 41
6) I don't give up easily.

that's all i can think of for now...it's a start, yes?

thanks, 1day, i'm gonna keep thinking on this one...