Well my son's dad called yesterday to talk to him. He is such a jerk. I tried to listen to as much of the conversation as possible. His dad asked him how counseling was and what he is getting help with and my son said he is getting help with lying (My son told dr's and social workers in Jan that his step brothers held a knife to his throat and threatned to kill my son and his dad doesn't believe him but I do. My son does have a tendency to lie but he doesn't lie about everything.) So his dad said he was glad to hear that because my son really hurt his Step moms feelings, his dad should have said I am proud of you for working on your issues. I wanted my son to say his feelings were hurt to but I couldn't tell him what to say. I have talked to my son about sticking up for himself with his father. I want to write a letter to his dad because I am so angry.