Such a good discussion, talking about RELATIONSHIPS. It's tough to declare hypocrisy, as that requires someone knowing another quite well, and also requires judging. It's not worth it to me. I think many people with mental disorders could be consider hypocrites, if another doesn't care to understand, don't you think? I agree, it's really not about them when you consider them to be hypocrites, but it's all about why "you" need to put them in that place.