Some people can be jerks and some aren't, you are worth getting to know, and maybe things are just going crazy in his own life. You shouldn't let anyone drive you crazy, and maybe you should try again to tell him how your feeling, maybe he is feeling some vibes coming from you, that are keeping him away? I never thought I was giving off a bad attitude but I've been I have.

Do you think you should go back to counseling?

Keep thinking positive thoughts and squash out the bad.