Ha! 9 years with a therapist and you'd think I'd know that - don't know why I would expect someone else to touch that question with a pole! Heh heh!

Reason I ask, KV, is mostly because of some of the things that you said. Like "why are you going along for his ride?", "your grip on the problem seems to be slipping", "this is turning out to be YOUR issue". I guess I'm just looking for clarification... but maybe you're just questioning me to get me to question myself, therapist-style!

Thanks friends!
- Veteran LMo

We are ALL going to be a-ok!