My husband tried to talk to one alter today after a fight and i fought it all the way. Do u think i should let him just talk to her and her him? I feel so out of control let a lone what she will say. I've always been scared of what my husband wouldd think of me but if he talked to her would he see me badly, so i say no to her and that she can only tell me. BUT my head is so full and it might feel good, i don't know. Does this work for you?