selfy u sound almost exactly like me...
i fantazize almost all the time....since i became a teenager... all of my fatnasies have been exclusively homosexual... i have fantasies of myself as a man... with a man.. also ive had dreams...
at the same time this makes me feel very sad and empty inside..

to be honest i think women are at a huge disadvantage physically.. and even mentally/socially.. but thats cause i guess ive had too many negative experiences being one..
-the periods obviously
-makeup feels like a prison on my face and its a huge chore to do
-bras feel like handcuffs, always tight and never comfy
-boobs can weigh u down and really hurt if something hits them (maybe just me).. but thank god i hardly have any at all.. (so i dont really even need a bra!!)
- vaginas are just ugly and the stuff that comes out of them is unbearable and sickening and ruins my panties.. not to mention yeast infections (thank god not me ide rip it all out if i ever got one i swear..)which most women seem to get.. do men get yeast infections much?????
-long hair is just annoying
-social pressures to be beautiful and look young (advertisements appealing more to women about wrinkle cream, botox, weight loss especialy whereas men are allowed to look old like the hair coloring that even ADDS gray streaks to the hair).. ive noticed, women on tv are always beautiful and full of makeup and beautiful figures but men are allowed to be fat and ugly (according to jim for example) (except roseanne i guess but even she wears makeup..)
-how women act towards each other sometimes is disgusitng!
-personally i just find mens clothes more comfy... womens are too tight or too revealing or the overall shape is just plain annoying to me... even womens sweat pants are too tight! give me a break!!
-being at a risk for rape especialy where im from

i can think of disadvantages for men..
-small %#@&#! size destroys ego
-expected to have outgoing/aggressive personality and to compete and have power
-hurts really bad for them to be hit in the balls
sorry thats all i can think of!