I have that sort of trouble with people asking questions (which
T's do a lot of also). My stepmother use to ask rhetorical, double-blind questions like, "why do you do that?" implying whatever it was was wrong and bad so I never knew why I did them (since I unconsciously fought being wrong or bad). I still often hear questions as a manipulation or trick, the asker looking for information to use against me instead of wanting to get to know me better because they like me and find me interesting.