Hello BT. I am glad to hear that you are working towards something positive in your life. this is going to be a big change of course. also I just wanted to say this about the other women flirting with your husband. These women are very ignorant and insecure themselves to even go after your husband, and to them you dont even exist, and that is why they dont talk to you. YOU need to work on saving your marriage and feel better about yourself, and not as much time on your husband in having feelings for ignorant and stupid women, and hopefully your therapist can teach you to be prepared when this happens. It has nothing to do with you but someone elses insecurity and stupidity. Good to see you posting and accepting advice for your issues. Take care BT. PM anytime. Soidhonia