(((INKY))). It is very hard on both parties at this time, and your children have a lot of feelings at this time, unfortunately some of the feelings are not very good. It is not your fault that you are in the circumstances that you are in at the moment, and hopefully one day your children will see that you are doing the best that you can do for yourself and them in the long run. I am sorry that you were hurt by the comments made by your children, adn I hope they will thinkk differently sooner than later. Take care. (((INKY))). PM anytime. Soidhonia