i have spent a lot of time alone and pondering who i am and what what is and whats it all about and whats my meaning.....i think 50guy makes a very good point.. when you are without people, you can find strength in spirit or a higher power of some form...

from that, create new connections to the created world using the messages of kindness you already know so well or develop from asking your source of knowledge....

before long you might create new friendships relative to your new understandings... then you have something....

sorry if this does not answer your intended questions