This post... was so so so so not about money.....

It was about.. LOVE... LOVE... LOVE... LOVE... LOVE....

and.. so not about money....

it is about... friendship..... about... sharing.... about perceptions...of what friendships are...

I can personally pay... for the "help" I need.... really...

my friend.. with the "money".... cannot feel... care.. empthay.... pleasure.. from being with someone.... because she.. is "stunted".. in her personal growth.... and.. I actually feel sorry for her...

I used.. the example.. of her paying for help... because... she can't.. even part.. with 5.00.. that you put in the Christmas boxes.. for sending overseas for the children.. she doesn't feel.. that joy...of... making someone else's life better...

and.. yes friendships.. are not about "filling in holes"... for another person in my opinion either....

sharing... is the best I can come.. to my definition of friendship...