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That is exactly the way I am. When I help someone I don't want them to tell others because I want to remain anonymous. I usually don't ask people if I can help them I just get a feeling and it is usually spot on. I find a way to do it when they can't refuse. One time a person needed tires on the car so, I asked if I could borrow their car for an errand. I took it to get tires, an oil change and full tank of gas. I never said a word just left the receipt on the seat with the price torn off.

I get a real spiritual lift from doing for others that I cannot describe. I am also one that doesn't like to take from others but, I got a lesson in that. I was homeless twice in my life.
Me, DW and 2 kids, with nowhere to live and nowhere to turn. We lived in the car, on a campground, in a low rate (in more ways than one) motel and I worked till I ached to get ahead. We did and I determined that I would help others.

I want to be the kind of friend a friend would like to have.
The Bible says that he that would have friends, must show himself to be friendly.

I offer my life and insights to all free of charge.

Friendship is the deepest expression of love that there is.
All of us seek to be accepted by others. Nothing is more painful than unrequited friendship. A onesided friendship hurts our spirit and damages our emotions. No one wants to be used.