she just asked if we can seriously end it...she says shes constantly reminded of my past and its making her miserable, shes trying hard to accept it but she just cant. Im not sure what to do...she has said this before, but we managed to stay together after she slept through it. I feel quite miserable myself as well...it feels like what i have done is putting her through this. I just need assurance that her depression is making her think that my past is a big deal and causing it to be exceptionally hard to accept.