We have a way, like water, of finding level within any container..even our most difficult challenges will find some balance,,if given time...

We are born with the basics and certainly adopt aspects of character along the way...some are by choice others are passed as gifts from caregivers as we are dependents...

But I think Nietzsche said once when speaking to a man about his desire for complete change...

"Be carefull of the demons that you toss aside,,,for they may be the best part of you"

IMHO.

Lenny