Yes -it was because I know MD to be a Doer. While T is a Thinker. I felt that change would really happen if I told MD. She's firey and lively and gets things done - and her word is a command. I felt scared about it, but was sure it would happen.

But she gave it over to T - who, as you know thought about it and said let's plan.

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sunrise said:Do you know why a few days ago you felt hope that you could do this when you were with your MD? What did T say to change things for you so that you felt disempowered? Can you hold on to whatever MD said that empowered you?

Can you tell her why this approach doesn't work and what will work for you? She needs to know in order to help you.

Kiya, you can do this. You are important. You have resources. Your T and MD are with you. You can move out and live on your own.

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I don't know that I can tell T that. But I did tell MD that sort of. Have not heard back from MD - didn't expect to.
I hope you are right Sunrise - I am going to lean on that belief for a bit.