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Old Jul 10, 2008, 10:39 PM
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But do you feel comfortable when your T or anyone gives you praise for how you are doing?

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No, I usually tend to dismiss these comments or act like I didn't hear them. I don't really like hearing praise during the session. It can be almost painful at times. For some reason it makes me feel childish; like she thinks I need a gold star on my behavior mod chart. The sad thing is some deep inner child ego inside me does really like maybe even needs to get T's gold stars. Kind of stupid, i know.

I think my T gets my pseudo -aversion to praise. Most of her praise is done in a very low key way and she allows me to ignore her.
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