I have spent many, many hours reviewing in fine details of my interactions with my T. I repeatedly look for signs that she is lying, not being genuine, is just pretending not to judge me, is uncomfortable, is not trustworthy and honest, doesn't give a crap, just want to get rid of me, and is just listening to be because it's her job. And every time I find no supporting evidence. When my mind goes into some paranoid witch hunt, it consistently returns empty handed. This alone has had more of a profound impact on me than any insight she gives.

fellowtraveler the best thing you can give your clients is your genuine presence. Anything less will be surely noticed.