My husband and I have been married for 9 years... together as a couple for almost 11 years. He had an affair a year and a half ago. Well, we've been going to therapy together and I really thought we were making progress. I forgave him for it, and all I want to do is move forward. The thing is that HE seems to be hung up on this. He tells me every day how sorry he is, and says he wouldn't blame me if I left him. He says he feels that I don't want to be with him any longer. I haven't said anything or done anything to make him think this way. I don't know what I have to do to prove to him that I still want to be in this marriage. I don't feel like HE should be the one with all the questions. Any advice? What should I do?
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"There are things we need to forget and forgive,
Sometimes we have to try and shed the damage we don't need."
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