I feel so 'pushed' into healing faster than i can. My T wants me to take my time .... i am struggling, my family expect me to heal like yesterday ... i've told them this process will be long and hard ..... i have carried guilt, shame and low self esteem around for many many years .... to undo that is hard .... i dont know whether this will be deleted or not, but sometimes i feel pressured here too ..... i'm not pointing a finger at anyone in particular, not at all, i have so many good, supportive friends ...... does anyone else feel that sometimes posts are maybe aimed at people at a stage further on in their healing? We are all at different stages, some know where they are at .... but trying to force that onto people who are just starting the healing process kind of triggers ...... advice is all well and good, but healing comes in ones own time ...... i know all advice is meant to help, but for those who have found themselves and are happy and content, please dont expect others to be the same ....... i'm sorry if this is negative,i dont mean it to be ..... its a support site first and foremost, for all stages of wellness ...... i hope you understand where i am coming from ..... not good with explaining myself ..... Jin x