And remember. . .by your own account, your T said she "thought" you weren't using the tool. This represents her perception. She didn't state it as a fact. Just like we as clients are allowed to say to our T's, "I don't *think* you're hearing me, listening to me, caring for me, giving me enough, fill in the blank" they too are allowed to have their feelings and perceptions.

If it's truly to be a relationship, then she must be free to *think* and *feel* based on her perceptions. It doesn't mean she's right (is she?) or that her opinion is somehow more valid than yours. It just means she has one.

Don't bail. stick it out and it'll be worth it.