I dont think people are trying push. I have to remember that also. People just try to say what works for them. We all have to go at our own pace. I sometimes feel like no one is like me. When I post some info that I need help with and I dont get much feedback I feel like I am weird. I try and remember we all are doing the best we can and we are alike in alot of ways but also have different stories to tell. I guess what Im saying is that we have to filter the information we get or dont get and use what is helpful to us I hope this helps.Love ya.
steph