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It is very rare when she doesn’t keep in contact, so when she doesn’t, like last night, I’m positive that something has happened.

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That's the rub; her previous habits have helped you develop habits but now you're locked in to habits that don't work no more :-)

I still remember when my girlfriend was visiting her parents from grad school; we were 24 or 25 I think and the two of us young women were out for an evening and her mother was waiting up for her when she got home :-) When we were in high school, she couldn't do anything after school (she was an only child and adopted) because her mother would make her take a nap! My other friend was a jock and she was always showering after school :-) so I never had much of a social life.

When I was 20 and in college I went to Florida for Spring Week (driving my mother's car with 4 other friends - my father and brothers practically had to sit on her from stopping it all at the last minute :-) and we went to a Jai Lai place and "faked" our way in with fake id's (1971) but I was last and I don't lie very well (no experience :-) and was the only one caught. The guy that was accompanying me (from Florida, not a student, older/26 or so, later asked me to marry him) came back out so I wouldn't have to be alone.

I'd remember how responsible your daughter was in high school and how well she's doing and that she takes after her Mom and will be fine.