"As far as "I" or "we", I'm not sure it matters? T has said sometimes I say "I" and sometimes "we". I guess it depends on which part of my brain is talking. I don't guess I ever worried about it."

Same here - I use it both ways in t. Sometimes in public - very few ppl have ever said anything. And I can always say "Me, myself and I."

We also have the name of the certificate... thus the change. Haven't made it legal yet, but I probably soon will (though I keep saying that.... why does time go so fast?).

To get our name, we sat in silence and asked for it. It took several weeks, but one day the name was heard and we accepted it. best!! Kiya