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Spotted Owl said:

I've talked with T about this, and he said it has to do with my fear of people abandoning me.

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I don't get this. Can you explain it in more detail?

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skeki said:
I'm a teacher, and when I do that to my kids? I totally mean it.

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But that is just it, I feel like my T see me as a child who needs someones praise. I feel like as an adult I should not need the praise or approval of someone else. When I get it I feel like I have lowered myself to the level of a small child.