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I'm so sorry your parnter may have a sexual addiction. That is so hard to deal with...especially if you have suffered abuse in the past. It sounds like maybe marraige/partner counseling would be good. It seems like you both may have past issues to deal with plus issues that you may need to address constructively with your parnter. I hope things go well. Things CAN change.