(((((Echoes))))))) ----if safe.

I hear you sweetie. I feel the same way. I think that this is true for everyone. The difference for other people is that people leaving them is more manageable because they have more of a 'secure base' both within themselves, and in the diversity of emotional investments they have that serve to buffer people going.

But I hear you, I surely, surely do. It is something I'm going through now with my therapist. I know this isn't much in the way of consolation... But can you think of some constants who are still with you through this hard time? People here... Maybe people in other walks of your life? The hardest thing for me about my Father leaving was that nobody stepped up to play the role that he had played in my life. Are there other people who might be able to step up to that plate and help that role be filled a little?

Thinking of you.