I have this problem too. Thing is-I have been like this for a long time. When we met I told him I could care less about having sex. Now 8 years later he seems to have forgotten that I told him this and is upset that I am never in the mood. Like you -I too used to be in the mood way more often. Now it is nothing. Married this time for 8 years and now it is a problem. I feel so lost and don't know what to do. He seems to think I should do it anyway even if I don't feel like it. Been there, done that in my previous marriage and it felt like I was being forced every time. Hubby now tries to say he does things he doesn't feel to doing all the time. (such as going to work everyday, mowing the yard, etc) I am lost and don't know what to do. Sometimes wish I would never have gotten married.