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But it might also be offensive since DBT does really push towards change and recovery and not staying stuck, and those are uncomfortable concepts for a lot of people too.

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Sadly, it may be harsh.....but how true it is!!!! I know my husband for one is one of those people who says they are who they are & their personality is what it is & there is no way it's going to change because it's who they are......no matter how bad it's screwing up their life......I am sure that those words coming from my husband aren't that different than millions of others who feel the same way.

People who can't figure out even where to start on changing or what to start changing & when therapy only reinforces their own thinking rather than challenging their thinking.......& they aren't involved in anything else in their life that challenges their thinking........they are stuck & that's just the facts.....whether it's harsh or not.....reality is what it is.

Debbie