Mouse, I can say honestly that my responses have nothing to do with anything you have said regarding DBT. In fact I had to go back and see what you had said....

I am just tired of people painting with a broad brush and implying that if others are not using the tools that they are to get healthy, than they must not really want to get healthy in the first place. That couldn't be more wrong.

DBT, like anything else will help some and not others. LIFE is like that.... it doesn't mean you don't "want" to get better, just because you don't use it, or any other specifc thing.

I firmly believe that most people want to move forward, it is easier for some than others, but that does not make "the others" wrong. And then they're the people who think they are farther along than they are, but that does not make them always right.

We need to work on ourselves, not pass judgement on others. IN MY VERY STRONG, yet humble, OPINION