i think i agree with kiya at least in the beginning... none of my abusers ever admitted what they did... and i doubt they ever will... if we were in therapy together ... i wouldn't be safe enough to confront my issues... even if they had admitted what they did... i would imagine that it would be hard not to fall into the codependent roll of trying to take care of them and not myself... just my 2 cents...lyn
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