we have to talk about that. boundaries... we need to revisit that. he seems to be trying really hard to sort out his transference feelings and use them for good... trying really hard. i was like 'you better sort your %#@&#! out' a couple times - but i didn't really expect that he would... it was more a rhetorical devise... but he did at any rate. and turned out that he felt like i placed demands on him that were more than he could meet. with the phone session... and so... we need to review my 'demands' including... any email or phone contact. so... yeah... we will see, i guess.